Tuesday, 27 January 2015

Why it never feel the same way again?

People always describe other people negatively for things that they unconsciously are. Then when you tried your hardest way to tell them what you feel, they tend to be defensive pointing all the blame on you. What is worst is that they will always tell you all of the favors that they have done for you so far, insisting that they are always good and you are always bad. To tell you honestly, I just feel exhausted with this kind of friendship, like putting 2 hands circling tight at my neck. From this day on, everything does not feel the same way again, will never be the same again.
I will always admit that I have a lot of mistakes and there are tons of times that I make my friends feel offended with the words I say, actions that I do and things I show. Still, I will not let a single day pass without apologizing to them for it is one of my ways of living because I love them in the first place. It is just frustrating on my part that when I am too sensitive with what they feel, it turned out to be a contrary on their end. Then, repetitive encounters and same scenarios made me raised my hands and left.
Sometimes, it is not all about pride because when one had enough of everything, one will just say "it is over" and there is no way of going back. I can say that friendship is not letting the person feel that one have done a lot of things for the others because one is always ready to do what a good friend can do, vice versa. It is not about making the other person feel that he is always isolated. Lastly, you must never ever create stories against a friend just because one just want to. Every friend that one has is different, so treat them on how you want yourself to be treated before it is too late. Just like an old saying goes, a shattered glass, no matter how one tries to fix it, it will never go back to its original state. 
Details - Headset (Philips Ph), Beanie and Tee (Uniqlo Ph), Eyeglasses (Sunnies), Watch (Casio), Gym Bag and Sneakers (Adidas Ph) and Jogger Pants (Topman Ph).
At the end of the day, always remember that everything happens for a reason. God will always give different sets of friends to test your values, learn from them, help you grow up and mature. Also, friends come and go so choose who are the people worth to be confided with, who will stay by your side and will never hurt you more than a gazillion times. Life is too short so throw the bad people away and start again from scratch!

Thanks for dropping by and reading cool kiddos, ciao. :)

23 comments:

  1. wow! I love that watch, very classy...and your bag too, perfect!!

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  2. burning bridges? awwww it would be easier no kung andun ung tao sa bridge? wahahaha

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    1. Noooooo pehpot. I am not thinking of that way naman. I think it will take time to forgive than take revenge. :)

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  3. I guess there will be people who are fault finders. This ones it would be better to avoid. Nice outfit once again. Simple yet it stands out.

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    1. I can never blame them but avoiding them will be a greater way to do. Thanks for the advise though.:)

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  4. They say good friends good friends say bad things infront of you. And I know for a fact that you are a nice person and surely, you cannot please anyone.

    Love the outfit. Simple.

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  5. Burning bridges can be hard but not advisable for me because who knows what the future brings? Maybe you'll be needing his services or friendship in the future.

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    1. I am not actually burning bridges or ending things out. Maybe, I just need space for now because being exhausted will totally ruined everything. So I need to think things over again, I guess.

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  6. Those who stay with you through thick and thin and those who are always there for you are your real friends.

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  7. This days i don't any body my everything. I just live happy alone.

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    1. Whatever decisions you have in life, good luck. :)

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  8. I can relate with you on this. Sometimes, you get to know people or your real friends (per se) when you go through certain situations in your life.

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  9. Do this people pay your bills? If no, why bother?

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    1. Ten, I know there are some misunderstandings but the reason why they still bother because I think they are still my friends. Well, I guess.

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  10. Nice post. I agree that God will always bring different people to us throughout our life, and it's up to us to make a wise decision.

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  11. what a nice ootd and it's interesting to read a mans fashion blog since i haven't visited and known many men fashion bloggers.

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  12. I am going through the same stage right now and every night I ask the Lord to give me patience and understanding for it is indeed frustrating, like what you said. But I know sooner or later, it will also pass and I will become a better person. It's hard but it can be done. So cheers! You are not alone. :)

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